Minimalist Technology Decluttering: Unsubcribing and Deleting

Begin Decluttering your Technological Life 

Lately, I have been posting a lot on my Instagram about decluttering. I made a post about a minimalist packing mentality and four crucial things to keep in mind. I have shared my own decluttering of my message apps on my phone and call log. I want to share a more "full" version of that experience in this post, along with some other ways in which I declutter my technological devices. This is about some easy steps you can take to begin decluttering, but at the same time, it's about the mental effects of a clean space. When we clean up our physical surroundings, even if those are virtual ones, our mental space feels cleaned up as well. We have air to breathe and room to focus without the distraction of unnecessary clutter.

1. Let Go, Let Go, Let Go!

I will share a few methods that you can incorporate very simply into your day to day life and activities are a few ways to declutter your phone or any other technological device. It's all about letting go!

A major part of a minimalist mindset and having a decluttered space is ensuring that the things you bring into your space are the ones that add value to your life. Yes, there are some things that we really need (like bank files) that do not add value, but that we need. This post is not about those things. This post is addressing all the things we really don't need but we never critically looked at them and asked ourselves if we needed them or why we were keeping them.

We walk through life, focusing so much on having and buying and keeping so that we have things to show for ourselves, our hard work, and our accomplishments. But the truth is that half the things we have, we unconsciously picked up along the way.

2. Delete Old Text Messages 

Timeframe: Weekly.

I am really starting this post off with the most difficult one here, but it is also a crucial step in truly evaluating all the things we hold on to and place value on. Be really honest with yourself when asking this question: have I ever gone back and re-read text messages with friends/family/etc.? If the answer is yes, can you say which texts those were specifically? Who were they with? What was the context? If it's about information like addresses, flight info, or even anything financial, a text is not the best place to be storing that anyways. Find a safer place. Make a file or save it to their contact. Literally anything else!

If keep chats so you can go look back at pictures sent, save the pictures to your camera roll. Done!
You do not need texts with mundane or logistical content. Delete them!

If you go back and look at texts for any other reason ... like maybe it is a significant other and the chat is "important to you", ask yourself why the non-tangible virtual chat is so important to you? There are definitely reasons to keep certain things and I am not telling you that you have to delete everything. Just be really critical about why you feel the need to keep them. Maybe your relationship is long distance and this is all you have for a while. If that is reason enough for you, then that's good enough! When you are clear with yourself as to why you are holding onto things, it becomes easier to clean up the rest.

3. Delete Your Call Log

Timeframe: Weekly.

Same as with your text messages, I suggest deleting your call log once a week. Unless you really really really need to be able to go back and see who called you, there is really no reason to be keeping this. If you need a particular number of someone who called you, save it to your contacts. You can always delete it later. This is all just extra clutter that takes up space that we don't have in our phone, and that we do not need to and never actually end up looking at any of it.

4. Unsubscribe to Emails that don't Add Value 

Timeframe: Daily.

Each time you check your emails, unsubscribe to any of the emails that you were planning on deleting without reading. So often I found myself deleting emails that I never read anyways. I started realizing how ridiculous it was that day after day I simply kept deleting the same emails instead of doing something about it! It was as though I didn't realize that by simply clicking one little button, I wouldn't have to spend time deleting anyways! Maybe I was finding it meditative ... I don't know! Either way, it takes 3 seconds to unsubscribe from an email that is clearly not adding value to your life since you are not reading it, in comparison to the 5-10 minutes you are spending deleting all of them. And if you miss a day of deleting them, then you have 50 extra emails in your inbox the next day.

Some emails that I still subscribe to (and recommend) because they add value to my life:

• Oprah and Deepak Meditation 
• The Good Trade 
• The Representation Project 

5. Unfollow on Social Media 

Timeframe: Daily.

This one is similar to the idea of unsubscribing to emails. If you are scrolling through Instagram for example, do you know who each person in every picture on your feed? Sometimes we follow people back because they followed us or we follow a page because we scrolled down it for 2 seconds and it looked interesting. However, when the posts of those people actually show up on our feed, we have no idea who they are. I can't tell you how many profiles I would have click on in order to find out who I was following and what they were about. This is just one example of how we clutter our social media sites with information that does not necessarily add value to our lives. If this happens, consider unfollowing them. This will allow for the profiles you actually want to see to come through.

My point is this: follow the people who inspire you but know who they are. Know why you are following them and why they are adding value to your life. Does what they speak about inspire you? Does their advice help you? Whatever it is, care enough to know who you are following (or friends with - whatever social media site applies to you) ... for your own sake.  That way every post you see will be meaningful and add value to you in some way.

6. Delete Your Photos 

Timeframe: Daily

Don't worry! Not all of them! I recommend you go through your photos at the end of each day or at the very least at the end of each week. Delete all duplicates - you only need ONE of each photo. Trust me. I then suggest that you upload all your pictures to your computer weekly, or at the most monthly, maybe seasonally. I say this for people giving reasons such as wanting to show their photos from their past year to their parents/friends. Then, delete them from your phone! Keep the keep-sake photos and declutter your phone!

Getting into this habit will keep photos to a minimum because you'll only be keeping the good ones. It will in turn, allow you to manage your phone space and keep the photos app of your phone clean. It will also save you massive amounts of time in the future, where you want to look at old photos and half of them are stupid ones and duplicates. Or, alternatively, you are running out of space and need to delete all those silly blurry photos. JUST DO IT NOW!

The Test: Adding Value vs. Knowing when to Let Go

 
Ask: Does this add value to my life? 
This is the question you should be asking yourself each time you go through any of these categories. I have written about this quite a bit in this post, but what does it actually mean? How do you know if something adds value to your life?

Here are a few tells. Does it excite you? Does it have something to do with your passions or something you are super passionate about? Do you read whatever it is through in its entirety all the time (or almost all the time at least)? I am asking these questions with things such as Instagram/Facebook pages or email subscriptions in mind.

Ask: Why am I holding onto this? 
This will be the question you ask yourself when it comes to deleting your texts at the end of each week. What is my reason for wanting to keep this particular text or blurry photo? Is it adding value or am I simply holding onto it because it gives me a sense of security to have all these potential people to text as soon as I open my iMessage or WhatsApp? Us as human beings like security. We like to feel safe and attachment is the response. We attach ourselves to material things and technological things because we place value on them and they give us that sense of security. However, sometimes we place that value onto things out of habit; Not because they actaully have the value but because we are so used to putting importance onto things. That is why it is so important to ask yourself why you are unable to let go.

Physical Decluttering = Mental Decluttering 

My experience of incorporating these declutter methods into my technological space has made me feel calmer. I no longer am following tons of people who I don't even know or who post things that do not resonate with me. I don't spend 5 minutes every day deleting emails that I am subscribed to from clothing stores that I no longer want to spend money at. Deleting my texts allowed me to focus only on the things I am doing in this moment. It reminded me to let go of the past and focus on the now. If a chat with someone is finished for the time being, delete that chat until you reach out to that person again.

As soon as you understand why you were not able to let go and then do it, you almost have to ask yourself what you were so worried about this whole time. We think we need to hold onto certain things, but as soon as we let them go, the energy spent holding onto them is free.

My mom always told me that my headphones represented my state of mind. And let's be honest, everyone's headphones are tangled 99% of the time. Obviously, my headphones don't directly equal my mind, but the point still stands. Every little bit of our physical lives have an effect on our mental state. When the headphones are tangled, then your bag probably isn't organized, and in that case, your bed is unmade and the kitchen is a mess. You can be organized in many aspects but even the smallest areas of clutter can subconsciously weigh on you. We never think about technology as a place that needs to be organized. Many people don't organize their files and simply keep everything on their desktop (please let me help you!). Most of us probably never delete our call history and we have texts with friends from 5 years ago ... that's way too far to be scrolling back to re-read.

Let it go. Organize and declutter your technological space. Make it a nice and calming environment since so much of our lives is spent on it. Honor and respect your time enough not to waste it on things that don't add value to your life. I know you can do it.

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Minimalist KonMari Packing Must Knows

Quick Breakdown of Packing Minimally for a weekend Trip using the KonMari Method

This post is a short extension of a recent Instagram post I made about crucial minimalist packing to do's.

Crucial Minimalist Packing To-Do's

1. Plan an outfit for each day ... that way you are only bringing what you need for each day and you have an outfit planned for each day so you can eliminate the time-consuming struggle of picking an outfit! Don't hold up the group because you don't know what to wear! Don't be that person! 
2. Check the Weather! The weather cannot always be guaranteed; however, it can pretty much tell you if it's shorts and t-shirt weather or sweater weather. If you are going to a place where it might be hot one day and cold and rainy the next, try to create outfits that could be used for either... maybe all you need to do is bring one pair of pants and a sweater that can be thrown over any warmer weather outfit you're packing. 
3. Mix and Match Pieces and use them more than once! This is crucial because if you plan a completely different outfit for each day of a 5-day trip, then you will be lugging 5 pairs of pants and 6 different sweaters (if you're planning on those "just-in-case" items), and that is just totally silly! Try to bring as little as possible and mix and match with what you have. Can you bring a maximum of 10 items for a week trip and see how many you can mix and match together? 
4. KonMari Packing ... It's all about the folding. This method creates SO MUCH MORE space in your bag and it also allows you to see everything ALL THE TIME, ensuring that your bag stays neat and orderly and you don't need to unpack if you are only staying in a place for a few days. 
5. Reflect. If you bring anything you do not wear, make a note of it. Do you wear it normally and the weather/event just was not fitting for this item? Or were you hoping that this would finally be the time and place to wear this piece that has been neglected in your day to day life? If that is the case, perhaps it's time to be honest about it and pass it on.  

A Breakdown of the Outfits I brought... 

All of them can be mixed and matched (in the photos I only show one usage of each outfit - but read the captions for some alternatives. I was also sharing a small roll along bag, so in the picture above, my clothes are on the left-hand side... I'm not just showing you a few things below and then packing a bunch of other clothes! I Promise!

I can take off the white shirt underneath to make the strappy dress on it's own a little fancier!

With the jeans, I can wear the white blouse, the black camo, or even the bodysuit (if I wanted to make it a bit more casual than the option with the black silk pants below).

This is a bit of a fancier outfit, but i can also wear the white or even black top with this to give it more of jumpsuit look.

Same goes for this... I can wear any of the three tops I brought with this skirt... See below!

The one item missing in these pictures is the flowered sweater I brought that you can see in the suitcase picture. That sweater is colourful and pairs with any of the solid neutral colours I brought! 

Important Reminders for Minimalist Packing...  

Remember, it's not about packing as little as you possibly can... it's about packing SMART! Only bringing what you need, wearing everything you've brought, knowing what you are going to wear, and not getting hung up on things you think you should be packing for those "just-in-case" events... Let me tell you a secret... those "just-in-case" times never actually happen.

Letting go of all the things you "think you need"makes packing, travelling, and unpacking so much easier! And you'll always have cute outfits that you love to wear on your travels!

Happy Packing!

How to Identify Your Values - A Truthfully Honest Post

Finding and Aligning your Values with your Life and in Decision Making

Do you know your values? 

What is important to you? What is important for you in your day to day life? In a partner? In a friendship or a relationship? Are you making decisions based on the answers to these questions in order to create the kind of life that you want?

Creating a life that aligns with your values results in a meaningful, fulfilled, and happy life. I don't claim to be an expert of anything that I just wrote in that sentence - I am still learning, growing, changing - but I am definitely committed on my journey in the right direction so that every day I live a life that makes me truly happy. Maybe you are as well, in which case this post can contribute to your journey and perhaps help redirect you in the right direction!

What are Values?

Knowing, identifying, and living by your values can help you make sure you are living your life in a way that is meaningful and important to you and not anyone else. It's easy to ignore your values and continue simply living your life the way it comes, but when you do not honor your values, you are not honoring your potential best life. Whether or not you choose to recognize them, values are always there. You might have a few thoughts that come to mind when you think about what is important to you, such as family, good friends, having a clean and warm home, eating healthy, and working out.  But have you ever sat down and thought about why these things are important to you and really made that clear to yourself through writing it out?

But why should I care?  ... Because Life is all about decisions.

I have found that identifying my values has helped me in my decision making so that every choice is made in regards to what things are important to me and what I want in my life. These values can be general or specific... but your decision making will become easier the more specific you are about your values. If you know what is important to you in your career/job, family life, adventure life, etc. then you are able to make decisions accordingly. Choices such as "should I take the promotion?", "should I start my own business?", "Should I compromise or should I hold my position?", "what job direction should I pursue?", "Is this relationship right for me?". If you know what kind of life is important to you, you can make your decisions with those in mind. If a life of travel is important to you, maybe you should find a job that allows you to do that!

 Exercise- Identifying YOUR values! 

Write out your values... all the ones you can think of. If you are struggling, keep this question in the back of your mind: "What is important to me in a particular category?". For example, in terms of health, what is important to you? What values and way of life do you want to internalize for yourself? Ask yourself the same question in categories such as friendships, relationships, career/job life, family/children, travel, hobbies, etc.

Your values can be specific, such as, "a value of mine is to have a job in which I can still be family orientated and make a significant amount of time for my kids". On the other hand, they can also be more general, such as having a value of wanting to travel the world and live in many different places. You don't need to know all the details now, but having a general idea of what is important to you is a good place to start!

By writing out your values, you are internalizing them, reading them, and knowing them, so that they are so clearly in your head. You could see this process as a means of manifestation; however, the core of manifestation is simply focusing your energy on what you want and working hard towards it. "Working towards your values" means making decisions that align with them. Therefore, focusing on your values by writing them down and knowing them creates a really clear picture of how you want to live your life and seeing that life will encourage you to make decisions that honor the life you want in terms of your values.

Choose 3, keep it simple! 
Try to write out at least 3-5 if you are having a hard time coming up with and being clear on your values. I'm sure you can think of way more than that, but it's a good starting point so that this exercise about something a massive as "how I want to live my life" doesn't feel as daunting. It's a process and it can take time!

Choose three of your values to really focus on in your every day life. Which three are the most important to you? Write them out separately and hang them in your bathroom or by your front door or in your office. Have them in a place where you can read them everyday and remind yourself to make decisions based on those core values. As you realize that your decision making is becoming quicker whilst keeping those values in mind, feel free to add a few more to the list! But I suggest starting with three, to keep it simple and slowly get into the habit of consciously considering your values.

My Values - Some insight to get you started 

I began thinking about my values and what was important to me when I was looking at my relationships. I did not like the way certain things were developing and I realized I wasn't saying anything about them because I was not acknowledging that they were bothering me. It was hard to acknowledge those things in the first place because I didn't even realize why they were bothering me. The problem was that aspects of the relationships weren't alligning with my values. I realized, that if I was honest about what kind of relationships I wanted in my life, and really wrote it out, my current choices would not be highlighting my values.

I started researching, trying to better understand what values are and what kind of things I was supposed to be writing out in the process of identifying values. The hard part was is that people were explaining what values were, but no one was giving in-depth examples of them. I didn't know if I should just write "friendships" as a value or if I needed to be more specific than that. (I have personally decided to be more specific than that!). So, because of my experience, I wanted to hopefully change yours, and give you a few examples of what I have written out as being "my values". If they resonate with you, don't copy them word for word, but re-use the ideas in a way that apply to your own life. I have realized that values need to be more than just one word because how are you going to base a decision off of the word "friendship"? It could be a really shitty friendship but because you have decided friendships, in general, are important to you, you are going to make choices to prioritize this one. Instead, I suggest you write out the kind of friendships you want: truthful, honest, kind, open, communicative, fun-loving, etc. 

So without further-a-do, here are some of mine:

• To live, to my best ability, an environmentally aware and sustainable life.
• To be honest with myself and always speak my truth. 
• Continue living a minimalist lifestyle to my best ability in terms of what it means to me.
• Part 1: Be conscious about what I buy and buy sustainable products as much as possible.
• Part 2: Have the ease that minimalism brings, to know that I have everything I need, so that I can put the rest of my earnings towards travel and memories, not stuff.
• To have, make, nurture relationships/friendships that are based on honesty, trust, communication, forgiveness, support, and love.
• To have a healthy and balanced lifestyle.
• Feel great physically and mentally: working out, eating healthy, also indulging from time to time, being outdoors in nature 
• Practicing yoga, meditation, journal, self-reflection.
• Live in many different places 
• Family! To have great relationships with my family members, have my own family one day, and be close geographically to those who are important to me. 

The list goes on still. If it helps, I suggest even writing out your values under different headings. Have a heading for friendships, for relationships, for the kind of home you want, the job you want, and so on. I have found that we generally have many smaller values under the big ones.

If you are completely lost, journal for a few minutes about what you love about your life, what you would currently like to change, and feel what aspects make you really excited!

It's time to be honest with yourself about what is and is not working for you in your life, and through identifying your values, you can work towards creating a life where you are in control and the choices you make are exciting and not only stressful!

Now, go be awesome! 

Declutter to Detox: My Version of Project 3,33 and More

What is Project 3,33? 

In the introduction to this "Declutter to Detox" Series, I outline each of the three methods and philosophies I will be talking about. Project 3,33 was the second step of my declutter jounrey. The basic idea of this process is that you choose 33 items of clothing, jewelery, shoes, and jackets to wear for 3 months. Everything else goes in boxes in the basement for the duration of those months. Sports wear and pijamas are not included in the 33 items. The 33 items are what you are wearing on a daily basis, to work for example, and pijamas and workout clothes should not be worn out of the house (unless you are actaully working out!).

My Version: Project 1, 30

I altered the original Project 3,33 a bit since I started this in February in cold Canadian weather and wanted to focus on doing this for my fall/winter wardrobe. So my first goal was the “1,30” project. I would choose 30 items to wear for one month because I was fasely hoping that by the end of March the weather would start to warm up (who was i kidding!?). I also ignored jewelry and shoes because first, I don’t have much jewelry and what I have I wear, and second, in Canada, I generally just wear the same warm winter waterproof boots every. damn. day.  

Simple 5 Step Process to my 1,30 Project

Step 1: Lay out your absolute favorite "I would wear this everyday" clothes  

Once I laid all my favorite clothes out on my bed, I realized I was having a hard time laying out 30 items of clothing, let alone 33. That is why I decided to only use 30 items of clothing. This process really showed me what clothes I wore all the time and how many clothes were completely ignored half the time. 

I like the idea of choosing your "favorite" clothes. If you had to pack a small bag and you could only take your absolute favorite pieces, what would they be? I think that for most people that process is pretty straightforward; you can quickly say this, this, and this are sweaters I always want to wear. The second part is hard where you have to choose to fill up the 30 piece mark. Therefore, I suggest you really focus on your favorite pieces, and if you aren't able to find secondary pieces to fill the quota, then simply leave it at what you have. Choose your items carefully and don't choose something just because you need one more piece. Adjust this number to fit your goal and lifestyle; make your own version of this project that will benefit you the most!

Some Items to include: 

1. Make sure you have a diverse range of clothing. Have a good amount of sweaters (depending on the season), and from there add some t-shirts, tanktops, longsleeves, blouses and cardigans. 

My List: 

• 5 Cardigans
• 10 sweaters 
• 3 Blouses
• 2 Pants 
• 3 Tanktops
• 2 T-Shirts
• 4 Longsleeves 
• 1 Plaid shirt

2. Find outfit combinations as you choose clothes. As you lay out the clothing pieces, see what fit together and make sure every piece has a combination. 

3. You don't need that many pants. If you are struggling to keep it down to 33 pieces (or the number of your choosing) see how many pants you are putting in. How many jeans are you including that are almost basically the same colour? Can some of them go in the box for a while?

Step 2: Put the rest of your everyday clothes in boxes and hide them away

Only two out of the four boxes... I ended up having four big trash bags of stuff!

Step 3: Put out of season clothes in a separate box 

Summer Clothes Taking up Space

I originally believed this would be the best way to make my closet less cluttered. I wanted to take all my summer clothes out that weren't being used anyways and then I would go through the same process of project 3,33 in the summer when I was actually using those clothes and could see what I was missing or still needed. I feel like its a bit dangerous to get rid of seasonal clothes when it's not the seasons to be wearing them. 

Step 4: Hang your clothes up backward

Even though I tried to only keep my "favorite" pieces in my closet, there were a few pieces I included to meet the 30 piece mark that I wasn't 100% sure about. I wanted to meet the 30 piece mark so I would have options but I also did not want to fall back into the habit of keeping things in my closet just because I wanted "option". Often times "options" can just be another word for too much shit! Therefore, I hung all my hangers facing outwards (as you can see in the picture above). Everytime I wore an item, I would turn the hanger back the right way. This allowed my to keep track of what I was wearing and what items I continued to ignore. Being a slightly OCD person, it bothered my that the hangers were not all the same. This made my face the tough questions about how much I actaully wanted a piece of clothing and other times it motivated my to try wearing it again.

Step 5: Did you miss anything? 

As the time period goes on that you have decided on, whether that is one month or three months, can you remember what you put in those boxes? Do you miss it? My rule was that if I was missing a particular item of clothing and I remembered it and wanted to wear it, I could go down to the boxes in the basement and take out that item - but only that item. There were only 3 items throughout the entire time that I took back out of the box. At the end of my time period, I gave the rest of the boxes away, without even looking in them. I clearly didn't miss anything because I couldn't even remember what I put in there.

My Experience 

Originally I planned on only doing this project for one month. However, after a month was up, I realized I hadn't missed much from the boxes of stuff I put away, and I simply continued living with what I had been using up until that point. It was increible to slowly notice how little I actaully needed. I had always loved listening to The Minimalist Podcast and tried to incorproate their philosophy into my lifestyle, but until I saw Project 3,33 in their documentary, the ideas of minimalistm had not fully imprinted themself into my brain and day to day life. I needed to carry out an extreme process like this to realize that I really did not miss much. 

My closet during those months, where I had the rest of my stuff in boxes in the basement, was clean and spacious and beautiful. I could see everything and I knew I was wearing only my favorite pieces, so it was incredibly easy to get dressed in the morning and have only favorites to choose from. 

Sneak Peak to Next Week... KonMari 

I feel that it is important to start to brdige over into what I will be talking about next week because the order in which I am posting this series is the order in which I went through the process of decluttering. Once I had completed Project 3,33, I started reading Mari Kondo's book "The Magic of Tyding Up". This book resonated with me on so many levels from my passion of organizing and decluttering to mental and psychological affects of tyding up a space. 

The ideas of The Mininmalists and philosophy behind Project 3,33 vary from some things that Mari Kondo discusses. As I read her book during my "1,30" project, I started to shift my ideas and I ended up doing a second wave of decluttering, which ended up adding to the outcome and my overall experience. 

I think it is important to address this now already, since the first two posts really focused on having a certain number of things, like 33, and really only have things in your home that "add value" to your life. All of these things I think are great methods and concepts. I simply felt that Mari Kondo touched more on the value of and relationship to the stuff that we do have. Not all stuff is bad but it needs to spark joy in your life and make you feel happy and calm in your space. And you can only do this is you only keep what sparks joy. The way she talks about showing graditude towards your stuff in order to let go of it and she says to only keep what you use so that your things can be passed on to others who will find more joy from it. This pressented me with a new perspectve of how I keep, take care, and let go of my things.

My point is that once I started reading her book, I realized that I had kept 30 pieces of clothing in my closet for my version of Project 3,33 when in fact not all 30 pieces really "sparked joy". I needed to adjust my approach to how I was decluttering my space, in a way that worked for me and combined all the philosophies that were inspiring me.

Declutter to Detox: Minimalism and The Minimalists

The Definition of Minimalism according to the Minimalists

The whole idea of minimalism based on The Minimalists is to live meaningful lives with less stuff. Their podcast and website and books touch on all different topics of life and all of the things we accumulate. They talk about living minimalistic life with kids,  minimalism in education, in relationships, and so much more.

Want less, have less … start living consciously!

The main lesson I took away from this was to simply stop buying so much stuff. I realized I already had so much, and I definitely did not use all of it. Their advice is to make a list of all the things you might buy. I suggest organizing it into wants and needs. Look at the needs and ask yourself if all of them are really “needs”. Then, with the “wants”, write it down and let it sit for at least a week. If you are still thinking about the item and wanting it after that week, look in your closet or house and see if you have anything similar and make sure it truly is one of a kind that you really love and will use.

My biggest take away is to not over-buy. One of the main discussions within my university classes is the way in which our society today is so focused on having more and so afraid of scarcity. Generally, people don’t realize that we already live in a world of abundance. But that is often still not enough. We buy because we feel that we will be prettier if we wear that face product, and we will be skinner if we can wear that dress, and we will be successful if we can have the big house. All those messages come from our contemporary capitalist society telling us to consume so they can profit off of our fear of lacking. That is not always bad, and often times we need things but try to become more aware and simply be more critical as to what you are bringing into your life and space, physically.

Box it Away … did you miss it?

The “action” component that I took away from the minimalists is what they called a “Packing Party”. They called it a party because they invited people over to help them do this to an entire house, but a one-person party works just as well! The idea is to pack everything in your house or in one room up into boxes for a few weeks or a couple months. Then, as you live in this space, you only take out what you need. For example, you need a pan to make breakfast, take it out! If you need that second leather jacket, unpack it! Whatever you unpack you keep out and at the end of the time frame you have set for yourself, whatever is left in the boxes goes away – don’t even look at it.

Personally, I think this is quite extreme. This might be a great tactic for you and I think it could definitely benefit people who have a tendency of collecting things and not even knowing what they actually have, or for people who have such big homes where things are just completely neglected and not used anyways. For me, my “stuff” consists mainly of my one bedroom in the house I share with my two roommates. I have very few books, pictures, and frames, all of which are in use. I also wear the majority of my clothes.

My Version ... do what works for you!

So instead of putting everything into boxes, I went through my closet intensely and took out clothes and accessories that I hadn’t worn in a long time or where I would always opt for another piece of clothing instead. I had so many leggings for working out but I only ever used 2 pairs. I also had a number of cute tops but they either did not fit my body the way I wanted them or the weather in Canada where I study wasn’t where I would be wearing them.

I put all of these clothes into boxes and put them in the basement for 3 months. This was in January, so three months would be the end of March beginning of April, to try and give myself a range of seasons. I put these clothes away with the intention that if I missed something or needed it, I could go down and get it out, just like in The Minimalists’ “Packing Party”. I had 3 big garbage bags of shoes, tops, sweaters, scarfs, old slippers, etc. that I somehow just didn’t feel I needed to get rid of prior to this. The amazing thing is that I completely forgot about all the stuff in the basement. I went down only twice and took three things out over the course of the three months. It was really an eye-opening experience.

Purging the Closet

The second part of this process is still to come next week with “Project 3,33”, or as I call it “1,33”. I did this process of boxing things away with what I learned from The Minimalist together with this 3,33 project! I will talk more about the actual process of decluttering and minimalizing my closet and what specific steps were taken. Lots of pictures to come as well! 

The Emotional and Psychological Impact in Life

Though this process of listening and reading their philosophy, I developed a new perspective to how I approach "stuff". My first concern was the amount of waste that was being created by buying and storing things and then getting rid of them shortly after. We live in a fast-paced world where we are constantly stimulated by media and the newest fashion, technology, fad as pushed in our faces every single day. It's hard not to feel compelled to keep up. 

Spending the last few months listening to The Minimalists, I have started incorporating their practices that resonated with me into my life. I make lists of what I want to buy and think about it for a week before buying. I have a few things on my list even currently and I am getting much better at not buying something just because I see it hanging in the store. I don't feel like the same want any more to buy buy buy. 

Every time I feel the need to feel that dopamine high we all get in the moment we buy something new, I think about the greater effect. If I buy this product, will it add value to my life? Or will it be forgotten or thrown out in the new few months? Will I be adding to more pollution to the environment with this (impulse) buy? I am slowly finding that even with what I buy now, I am looking for environmentally friendly, biodegradable, and sustainable products. 

I want to continue to live a more conscious and aware life. I want to continue to be amazed by how little we need to live and truly be happy. I want to practice a more sustainable lifestyle by incorporating my version of minimalism into my life. Minimalism is a great way to declutter your home in regards to your physical belongings, but it can also declutter your life. Find your version of minimalism because it is all about the kind of life you want to create for yourself.

Declutter to Detox Series: Intro

This series focuses on Minimalism and other methods of organizing and simplifying your life!

Exciting things ahead:

Not only are the weekly Friday blog posts starting back up in a big way, but the first series that I will put out revolves around a deep intensive tidying up and organizing, that I am calling "Declutter to Detox".  

When you declutter, get rid of things, go through all your shit you really look at all the material things that weigh down on you. Critically going through all of this is a great way to lift some weight off of your shoulders. It's amazing how you feel like you can get your life together by simply getting rid of all that stuff that you never use, that doesn’t fit right, that you might need someday some time (but you really won't), along with all the things that just don't have a place or bring you joy.  

This first new series includes three posts; each post is a method that I incorporated into my tidying experience and from where I drew inspiration in order to create a method that really suited my best in my experience. The final post of this series, an extra fourth one, will outline a step by step process that combines all of these different methods that deeply resonated with me, so that you too can create your own personalized process to help you declutter and organize your life and incorporate only the things you truly need and that truly add value to your life.

I have obviously taken from various different people and methods as inspiration, so here is a break down of what you can expect.

 

The first post will talk about my deeper discover of minimalism through The Minimalists and their podcast. I started listening to their podcast over Christmas and everything they talked about really resonated with me in terms of living a meaningful life with less stuff. I always felt that I was an organized person but I never really considered that perhaps being good at organizing could mean that I was simply someone with a lot of stuff who knew how to organize it all… that didn’t necessarily mean I needed all of it. I really connected with the way they talked about what was important and shared thoughts on what you need and how having less is a really positive experience. It never occurred to me that maybe we don’t need that much stuff. We are always told to buy more, and that we need this product, and if we can afford it than why not buy it! But do you really need it? It made me realize that I was living with way more than I actually needed and used and that was reason enough to simplify!

The second post will focus on a method I found in The Minimalist Documentary (on Netflix) called the “3,33 Project”. This project was started by Courtney Carver and the idea of this project is that for three months you only wear 33 items. That includes jewelry, clothes, shoes, scarfs, etc. but does not include indoor clothes like PJs or gym wear (but those things aren’t meant to be worn out of the house anyway). Carver's goal was to find as many different outfits as she could make with these 33 items and in the end, she realized no one even noticed that she was re-wearing the same clothes in different ways in the same week. I altered this a bit to fit my life and goal of organizing.

The third post will consist around the method of Marie Kondo, known as the “KonMari” method from her book The Magic of Tidying Up. This is one of the most amazing books I have ever read and it really encompasses the connection between your house and your mental well-buying and lifestyle. Additionally, even though she focuses on tiding up, there is really little organization that goes into putting things away when you have less stuff. If you have any interest in organizing your home or you want to take the first step to getting rid of things you don’t need, the writing and layout of this book makes it incredibly easy. She outlines all the different categories of things you could potentially have in your home and how to methodologically go through each to obtain the best results. Mari Kondo made points that varied from what I had been learning from The Minimalists Podcast, and those ideas resonated with me even more. Still, there were aspects of The Minimalist that I still really liked and wanted to incorporate along with my own ideas of what simplifying and organizing meant. 

I look forward to sharing my journey and hopefully my combined method can be a starting point for you on your decluttering journey!

Here is a little overview to start off this first week on the benefits of decluttering and simplifying and the art of minimalism. 

Get Your Life Organized in Calendar Form

3 methods and programs you need to create a schedule that helps you organize your life and and manage your time! 

Start the new year of school, work, and life off in the most productive way by being on top of all your assignments, meetings, and events from the beginning! There are a few things that I incorporate into my life, even when I am not on a heavy school schedule to still be productive from day to day. 

Daily Planners

This is something you need! 

First, I have a daily planner note book (old-school style) that I carry with me everywhere I go. In this daily planner I write dates of upcoming assignments, projects, and meetings. Ill write out my weekly to-do’s at the start of each week, and break those down into my daily to-do’s in the space given for each day in the planner. On top of that, I will also write out other things I need to plan, such as my meal prep - i.e. when I will be prepping and what I will be eating each day that week - and my blog posts - i.e. how much time I will be spending on a particular post or what preparation I have to carry out. 

The set-up is key 

There are a few different planners I have used in the past, but I always come back to one with a particular set up. I like it when the one side of the page is for notes, and the other page outlines each day of the week. This allows space for me to have an overview of my weekly to-do’s on the “note taking side” and I can write daily to-do’s and appointments on the actual day, on the other side. 

Guidance 

One brand that I used for years and has this set-up is the Moleskin. You can get the calendar for 18 months (which I like sometimes so that I can start my new calendar off in September with the start of school) or for 12 months from January to December. It is a very simple version of this set-up that I like, with notes on the left side and the days of the week in blocks on the right side. It is clean and simple. 

A the beginning of this 2017 year, I started using another planner that I ordered from a very cool and alternative magazine called Flow. It has the exact same set up as the moleskin; however, it is composed of very cool designs and patterns, and poses little reminder and awareness questions each week, such as ‘how did you go enjoy the weather this week?’. The planner makes me happy just looking at it, which I find is actually super important. It’s helpful to me to have materials that look pretty and make me want to use them. It somehow makes writing out the massive amounts of to-do’s slightly more bearable. 

You do You

Make sure the set-up you choose is good for you. I am sharing the method that best suits my ways of organization and my methods of getting work done. There are numerous different set-up’s for planners, with no note space and just the week laid out, or different spaces for different notes such as to-do’s vs. grocery list. It is simply important that you figure out what method that distresses you and helps you feel onto of your work. My final piece of advice is to get a planner that also physically catches your eye so that you enjoy using it and seeing the different designs and reading the quotes. 

This gives my an overview of what things need to be done the upcoming week along with assignments I would like to be working on, even if they are not due that immediate week. -Just brief overview of weekly to-dos —> and how they can carry over into daily to-do's - not only making a to-do list on paper but actually put the time blocks into your calendar to designate specific hours and certain blocks of time to each assignment or to-do. *See “Designing Routines that Work- Daily Edition” to read a step by step process of organizing all your work. 
This is where I will also color code. All of my due dates for assignments are written in red, whereas my 

Google Calendar App

Why you need this in your life immediately! 

Google calendar is a perfect app for scheduling time blocks for work and appointments. I have all my classes blocked out, along with my morning wake up routine. Each day I have also added what times I have blocked out for work. When setting up my daily or weekly to-dos, I will change the name of the "work block" to specify what I will be focusing on during that blocked out time.

Google calendar syncs with my phone and sends me reminders 30 minutes (or whatever time you choose to put in) before so I know what appointment I have next. It also reminds me to get working during my work blocks, even though sometimes I'd rather just ignore it. I also like it better than the iCal from Apple, because Google calendar actually shows the blocks of time, whereas iCal only shows bullet points of to-dos, which just looks overwhelming when there are a lot of them!

This is a bit of an older example. Google Calendar has updated their colors and set up for 2018. Below is the most recent set up!

Calendar #2: Deadlines 

I have 4 months worth of calendars printed out, where I write all of my deadlines. I like being able to see the whole month like this (below) on paper, so that I know what is coming up in the next couple weeks and prepare. This is where I will also color code. All of my due dates for assignments are written in red. Then I have my internal deadlines written in brown. So many of my assignments are all due within a couple of days of each other, so it is important that I have an overview and prepare and write assignments ahead of time so that I do not get stressed and overwhelmed with everything that is due, last minute. 

I also love just crossing and checking things off. It makes me feel like i actually accomplished it and kicked butt and its DONE! 

Weekly To-Do Lists 

 

Overviews are Important

Writing out a weekly to- do list gives me an overview of what things need to be done the upcoming week along with assignments I would like to be working on for internal deadlines or other important tasks. Sometimes to-do's can be a bit overwhelming so instead of writing a massive list of to-dos for one day, write a weekly to-do list. What are things you need to get done for this week, later this week, or in the upcoming week. Think of this as short term things to get done.

How to Make Your Own

Each week I write out my to-dos that I would like to get done this week or that are due this week. Then, each day I write out what I plan on achieving each day. I set up weekly to do’s based on categories such as the various classes I have, errands, blog, or other. Instead of just writing "English Essay" as a to-do, I write down the final goal: "complete English essay research" or "write and edit English essay". 

Give yourself a specific amount of time to get that work done in. organized under their appropriate category. I then prioritize my to do’s (all of them together) from “1”, being most important, to the last thing on my list, which is the least important. The least important is either something that is due last out of everything or something that could potentially be ignored all together. 

Each day then, I look at how much work time I have in which I can get things done and take the top priorities on the weekly list and make a “daily to do list” in my calendar book.
This is where the google calendar comes in handy, so that you can block off the amount of time you will be dedicating to each task. If I have a big assignment, i will change the name of one of my “work period” blocks on my google calendar and allocate a specific amount of time to getting that project or essay done in.

If you want to read a bit more about creating daily and weekly to-do lists, check out "Designing Routines that Work- Daily Edition”, for a step by step process of organizing all your work.

Free D3 Template for Weekly To-Dos 

This is a lot of organizational tips and this post shows a lot of different ways to organize. Choose the one that works best! If you like to write things out on paper, print out monthly calenders to organize your to-do's. If not, get yourself the google calendar app! Regardless, I would recommend getting a calendar book to have a weekly overview, or you can print out mine above! Comment below or write me personally if you have any questions!